Re-Trusting : Gaining The Trust That You Lost

Trust like I have said earlier is the vital key to the bonds of relationships. Trust grows like how the big tall trees in the jungle, slowly and constantly if nothing serious happens. It is suppose to be established and unshaken by wind. If there are outside factors such as parasiting, rotting or lightning strikes, the very foundation of the trust will crumble. Parasiting and Lightning Strikes are similar, both an outer factor that will bring the great Trust down. Parasiting will slowly sap the essence of life that the tree had been keeping for it's lifetime and Lightning Strikes just strike without mercy at unexpected times. Rotting comes from the inside of the tree where the tree will be influenced by worms which lingers within it. Of course, you'll be lucky if there are some woodpeckers there to help you but in reality woodpeckers are almost extinct.

Even when the tree is big and strong and not affected by the 3 phenomena above, there are always someone who will try to axe it down for their own benefits. The benefits varies from one people to another. Money, popularity, or revenge (due to envy) might be the reasons behind the cutting down of the Trust tree. These group are forester.

As how the tree falls, every years taken to grow will be leveled to as low as the ground but as long as the roots are still intact to the ground, it will eventually grows and be a big tree again. Time is the factor to the growth. What was lost may not be achieved to the same extent as before but it's worth a try. The length of time to grow would probably be multiplied but it is still possible. When the tree falls, it will first need to clear whats inside, the worms that eating the very core. Then it needs to identify the parasites that are growing around it then throwing these parasites that are around it. Next is to let the growing to grow at it's own pace.

Parasites and Rotting can be stopped but Lightning Strikes and Forester are hard to prevent. The only thing to do is to equip the tree with some things to prevent the lightning strike at the same place and prepared for the unwanted forester. Probably by dropping some branches or durians on the foresters' head will do the job... not killing ya... remember self control and discipline to prevent rotting.

Lightning Strike is something that happens unexpectedly just like a god's trial to the tree. Parasiting is like the other beings around the tree that are taking advantage and trying to kill the tree at the same time. Rotting is from the tree's ignorance of self control and discipline. A forester kills the tree for utmost benefits and usually helped by the parasites. Roots will be your determination and inner strengths to withstand the fall to rise again.

"Our greatest glory does not lies in our success, but to fall and try again." Confucius

Signing Out,
Meowth @ka Melvin

World Destruction... Can You Feel It?

The Anicent Mayan Calendar ends in 2012, 21.12.2012. End of time. End of the world. The end of Mayan Long Count. The apocalypse.. Nostradamus sets a time frame around 2012 AD that the fearsome meteor will hit earth. NASA Announces 2012 Destruction Probable.

Many, many reports and information that you can get over the Internet. Yet, most of us are clueless, unaware and maybe don't even care about this... For those who believe their journey is still long, think again 2012 is just 3 years away... For those who are chasing towards the materials, ask this question, "Can I bring the materials to where I would be when the destruction hits earth?". Our lives has now become tha issue... the timebomb is ticking... bit by bit... we are strucked by little famine...

SARS, Bird Flu, and now the hottest A H1N1, the cases are getting more and more serious... I basically don't want to believe in this warnings... but the concern has reached my heart... I want to be rich, famous and satisfied... I don't want to perish in the flames of the destruction that I'm going to walk into... There are many things that I still want to do... Life... right now is no longer what it used to be for me... chasing the wind and stars... get good grades to get a great job that earns a lot... I don't want it anymore...

I just want to live my life... as how everyone should have... living to the fullest... with no regrets... I'm trying to do things that I wanted to do... trying to achieve as many dreams I have... trying to spent as much time for my friends and family... trying to say those words that I should've said to someone... Time for us have shortened... we should learn to appreciate...

As much as I would like to think that this prediction is fake and will not come through, I would also like to see the expression of those who wasted their lives and treated others badly when the time we known as "Judgement Day" arises... God's wrath on all of us, those who did the sins and for those who ignored the sinners... I just hope that god will change his mind on this one...

Trust

Trust... The very foundation to any relationship... The key towards a life long friendship and love... The trust factor have always been an issue that keep us away from having true peace... Believing that everyone has an agenda of their own when they do something...


I am a believer of trust itself... you may think that I'm naive and not being hurt by evil backstabbers and even liars... Maybe I am trying to think about whatever good that is left in the world today... Optimistic or some might say Foolish... I chose to stand on the side of trust mainly because I've once lost it... before a saviour came and pull me out from where I am with just trust...

I was falling into the darkness when hopes die out on me... people around me see me in the manner that it takes away whatever life essence thats left within you... People began to discriminate and even isolate you... for just a few tainted events that you are related with... People didn't know how suffering it was... the emotions behind a smile and the bleeding within the tough expression... Everyday was like falling into the deeper area of life...

Then a hand reach out to me... pull me away from where I was... I am giving up on all the hopes and there she was... telling me that she trust that I can do it... Trusted that I can come out from the hole and redeem my pride... she was my teacher, the only person who gave me strong words and encourage me when the world turn it's back on me... That was the beginning of a journey beyond my own immagination... I'm now in University... A place that I've never thought I'll make it back then... Thanks to a simple trust...

There for, I am keen on giving trust to people although I'll be hurt at a certain point... Honestly, I don't mind... because the trust that I give can at one point save another me... So, please try to keep the trust because its important... Trust is earned not given...